L.I.A.M The Super Human Podcast

#186 Attitudinal Transference

I hear a lot from parents asking why their child is the way it is, anxious or angry or shy. They say things like, 'I was never like that as a kid' or 'I don't get where this has come from' Kids learn by watching as much as doing, today was spent building a lego castle for my Niece, I helped because yesterday Bella said 'I can't do it, I'm no good' It funny today when my Mum was trying it and see said 'I can't do it, I'm no good at it' You have the opportunity to teach and guide all the time, even if you don't know it.

#185 I can be healed by others

I believe deep down people are afriad to look at themselves at a deeper level When I started to focus on who I was and what was actually missing in my life i realised I didnt need anyone. Not needing anyone is massively different than not wanting someone, the difference is key. Open up to yourself, you wont need anyone but you will be strong enough to be ready for someone.

#184 Social media free time

Limitation Is A Mirage Episode #184 💥Social media free time💥 What did you do when social media crashed? Did you freak out and complain or did you spend time with yourself? Change is great but only if it benefits you.

#183 Work on more than whats on the surface.

You can only work on one problem/situation at a time. So many people believe this to be the case, so much so that they usually will think they have so much to do that they just don't do anything or they work on a surface problem because they are afraid to look deeper. The problem with this is, if you manage to clear the problem you will not get the result you are after, you will not be 'cured' or 'fixed' The reason for that is you are not really hitting what is holding you back. Look beyond the surface and tackle the main issues that are causing the smaller ones, don't hide out of fear, work on it out of desire to be better.

#182 Emotional Intelligence

If you think you can not control your emotions, you really need to settle in with yourself and learn how you feel in each state. When you know how you feel in each emotional state you can then control which state you enter any situation in. In my experience with the right advice anyone is capable of this, you just need to gain the knowledge and then practice.

#181 My body now matches my mind

For years I let Doctors and trainers and other professionals tell me that I was just one of those people who would never put on any weight. I would always be the small guy who would never build muscle, no matter what I ate or did. I believed it so it came true, for years that is who I was. Until I decided that was not who I wanted to be, I tried everything until something worked, I changed how I seen myself in my mind, I was no longer the small guy, I was a tank, then I became a tank on a tank. Do it, whatever it is you want to do, do it. Stop living in other peoples realities and start creating your own.

#180 Choose to do your best.

110% is a myth. No matter how hard you believe in what you are capable of, you can never do more than 100% Lots of people believe if they aren't giving at least 110% then they may as well not try because they aren't going to make it. From my experience and even with not being allowed in my maths class, I know that if you achieve 1% effort towards your goal every day by day 100 you will have succeed. Choose to do your best, this way no matter how you fair out you will always be proud, you will never set unrealistic goals and you will always learn a little or a lot about yourself.

#179 You can be more

Every day someone tells me they would love to do something more but they can't, they believe they haven't got the time or skill set. Every day I work on different aspects of my career, from kung fu to magic, mentoring to Hypnosis, I aim to get better every day. If you looked at all of these things separately you would think they had no place together, yet I make them work. Take time to work on what you want, use the spare time you have to create the life you want.

What have they to worry about?

In the past we used to say, What have they to worry about? Imagine if they had something to actually worry about? He/She will be grand. Over the last 10 years or so this has been repeated, a lot has changed for young people in this time. I used to just run home and then I'd be safe, now with social media the danger follows you home. It is up to all of us to help steer them towards a more positive outlook, there is a lot more ways for negativity to reach them than there was when I was younger, so the more positive things I can put out on the world the better.

Do you collect or execute?

Today I got to hang out with Hugh, he is a great guy with a lot of knowledge and experience. We talked about a lot of things, the thing that stuck to my mind was, certificate collectors. People who think they will change their whole life by just passing this course or by learning this new fancy system and then fail and move on to the next shiny idea. What they get wrong is, their focus is on the cert not on the implementation of the learnings. If you never implement you will not improve no matter the amount of knowledge you gain.